Little things that you would like guys/girls to change?

[geminifromkhi]

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@Guppshupper

Girls are more picky and nakhraili.

Guys who are groomed with careers are not looking for almost spinster 30 year+ professional women who have nothing to show other than a degree and salary which the girl isn’t willing to contribute to the household anyways.

Even 30+ guys are hardly groomed. Most dont even realize their age.

[OYMWA]

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Someone sent it to me on whatsapp. My thoughts are similar; but am short on taqwa.

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[strangeworld]

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@geminifromkhi

OK so a similar thread exists which is asking what defines your ideal partner.

My question is what changes do you think others could make that would make them more desirable, or less undesirable at least. For example, a 30 something guy wearing a spider man shirt and a matching band is definitely a no-no. The same guy could look a lot better if he wears clothes that suit his age, and maybe a classy watch?

Before you lecture me about the unimportance of looks, I just want to ask whats the harm in grooming ourselves?

So guys and girls tell me what turns you off, and what could make the situation better?

So it’s not weird when an aunty wears a frock or leggings on a fat body???

You girls can be reasonable whatever you do and if a guy is doing something he’s a no no?

Who are you to judge people? If president of United States wears shorts and hangouts on the beach can be normal why not a 30 years old guy wearing a spider-man t-shirt.

Such a stupid stupid question.

[geminifromkhi]

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@strangeworld

So it’s not weird when an aunty wears a frock or leggings on a fat body???

You girls can be reasonable whatever you do and if a guy is doing something he’s a no no?

Who are you to judge people? If president of United States wears shorts and hangouts on the beach can be normal why not a 30 years old guy wearing a spider-man t-shirt.

Such a stupid stupid question.

Listen for me a 30 year old dressing up like a teen is a turn off. I have an image in my mind about the person I want, and sure you do too. I wont call it being judgmental.

[strangeworld]

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@geminifromkhi

Listen for me a 30 year old dressing up like a teen is a turn off. I have an image in my mind about the person I want, and sure you do too. I wont call it being judgmental.

Let me tell you what defines a person. When I was at uni I only loved one teacher and I still miss being his student.

That’s how he entered our class on the very first day.

He was wearing a big boxed check shirt with a dress pant looking like which was made for someone double his size and he was wearing it above his belly button with hairs looked like he came straight from a storm with a tie knot bigger than his face with an overall look of a pure paindo dumb ass guy.

But when he started speaking there was a pin drop silence in the whole class room. That’s the only teacher I remember in my 17 years of education and how well he taught us and how graceful he was and how intelligent and smart he really was with such a great personality, knowledge that you’ll sit and keep listening to him all day long without blinking your eyes.

Get yourself out of glamour. A guy wearing a suit and looking like your dream guy can be the biggest pain you’ll ever have in your life. As far as once you’re with that person is concern it’s not a big deal to ask him to stop wearing anything that you don’t find nice.

[Sara516]

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huge turnoff: someone like @**strangeworld

also, someone who’s always butthurt like @StrangeOne said. **

[strangeworld]

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@Sara516

huge turnoff: someone like @**strangeworld

also, someone who’s always butthurt like @StrangeOne said. **

Awww, I haven’t even walked over your face yet or anything.

[geminifromkhi]

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@strangeworld

Let me tell you what defines a person. When I was at uni I only loved one teacher and I still miss being his student.

That’s how he entered our class on the very first day.

He was wearing a big boxed check shirt with a dress pant looking like which was made for someone double his size and he was wearing it above his belly button with hairs looked like he came straight from a storm with a tie knot bigger than his face with an overall look of a pure paindo dumb ass guy.

But when he started speaking there was a pin drop silence in the whole class room. That’s the only teacher I remember in my 17 years of education and how well he taught us and how graceful he was and how intelligent and smart he really was with such a great personality, knowledge that you’ll sit and keep listening to him all day long without blinking your eyes.

Get yourself out of glamour. A guy wearing a suit and looking like your dream guy can be the biggest pain you’ll ever have in your life. As far as once you’re with that person is concern it’s not a big deal to ask him to stop wearing anything that you don’t find nice.

But how would you have found out without talking to him what he is like? If you consider a typical rishta scenario (and this is Pakistan I am talking about), there is not much room for getting to know the other person, so unfortunately you end up judging people on how they dress, talk, etc.

And I am not imposing my thoughts on anyone. You are fine with a spider man guy, sure go for it.

[strangeworld]

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@geminifromkhi

But how would you have found out without talking to him what he is like? If you consider a typical rishta scenario (and this is Pakistan I am talking about), there is not much room for getting to know the other person, so unfortunately you end up judging people on how they dress, talk, etc.

And I am not imposing my thoughts on anyone. You are fine with a spider man guy, sure go for it.

You don’t get it. Isn’t it?

I meant to say outlooks don’t matter either there’s a room for getting to know someone or not.

What if the same guy comes to see you with his family and rejects you because you said/did something weird just because you were too nervous about the whole situation somehow.

As far as typical rishta situation is concerned a sane man would never wear a spider-man shirt and go see a girl for rishta.

What you should’ve said is that it’s hard to completely know a person in typical rishta situations.

The answer to that question is just look at what you see and if you like what you see leave the rest on your parents/elders, they’re smart and intelligent enough to do the rest and if you think they’re not. Run away from your family and do whatever suits you.

And by the way I’m a man but I think it would look really cute/sexy if my going to be wife wears my shirts of spider-man or hulk or anything really.

One last thing sorry, just keeps coming to my head. Why I’m so cute

I never wore a funny shirt in my whole life but seems like it’s a good way to get rid of girls who are too narrow minded so I’m thinking of trying that next time I’d want to get rid of someone

[geminifromkhi]

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@strangeworld

You don’t get it. Isn’t it?

I meant to say outlooks don’t matter either there’s a room for getting to know someone or not.

What if the same guy comes to see you with his family and rejects you because you said/did something weird just because you were too nervous about the whole situation somehow.

As far as typical rishta situation is concerned a sane man would never wear a spider-man shirt and go see a girl for rishta.

What you should’ve said is that it’s hard to completely know a person in typical rishta situations.

The answer to that question is just look at what you see and if you like what you see leave the rest on your parents/elders, they’re smart and intelligent enough to do the rest and if you think they’re not. Run away from your family and do whatever suits you.

And by the way I’m a man but I think it would look really cute/sexy if my going to be wife wears my shirts of spider-man or hulk or anything really.

One last thing sorry, just keeps coming to my head. Why I’m so cute

I never wore a funny shirt in my whole life but seems like it’s a good way to get rid of girls who are too narrow minded so I’m thinking of trying that next time I’d want to get rid of someone

Please do wear a hulk shirt or something, you will be doing a lot people (read girls) a favour

[Ice_Baby]

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overly proud people who think they are god’s gift to the world