Re: light a candle in memory of victims or Ruju' ilal-Allah ?
muqawwee her bat ko hum is terah cultural thing keh ker chortay jaain to kal yeh app k tor tareeqay ban jaain gay
jub Nabil salal Allhu alyhi wasalam 9 or 10 muharram or 10 or 11 muharram k rozay main itne ahtyaat bata rahay hain k sirf 10 k akyla roza na rakho k yahood say mushabihat na ayeee .... baaloon kay style yahood say mushabihat na ayee ... darhee rakhnay main majoosion say mushabihat Na ayee.. itnee chote chote batoon per itnee ahtyaat batayee to
main or app kis terah itnee asani say kuffar ka culture apay culture main shamil ker rahay hain ?
mera zyhan to is cheez ko bilkul qubool nahi ker raha !
yeh to hazrat Nooh alyhi salam ki qoom walee bat ban gayee k jub hazrat Nooh alyhi salam say pehlay k Anbia Wisaal ker gaye to un ki qoomain ghamgeen ho gayeen ...or shaitan insan k roop main un kay pass aya or kaha tumhain apnay Naik log bohat yaad aatay hon gay to tum un ki tasveerain bana ker rakh lo or un ki yaad taza ker lo ..dil ko tassali ho gee
or un baroon k guzar janay k bad u ki nasal nay samjha k hamaray baray in tasverroon ko poojtay thay unhoon nay But' paratee shuroo ker dee...
one minut silent and light a candel yeh kion hamaray dilon ki taskeen ban gaya .? us one minut ki jagah ijtimaye Dua ik minut ki kion na mange gayee..?
yeh bhi or woh bhi ...yane hamare marzee ?
I think societies evolve over the period of time. Now people wear pants shirts and western clothes across the county, but I remember till 1990s in our hometown, one of our teacher used to wear jeans and children in every street hooted him (including us from windows of our home). When we started wearing same, our elders reminded us about that hooting.
So people do adapt dresses, lifestyles form other cultures and as far as it is not termed as religious customs, I don't see any problem in it. But if someone come and say that you need to wear long jubbas (as some wannabes wear in Pakistan) as its the attire Prophet (SAW) worn during his life and its the Islamic dress code, then I see a problem in it.
I again repeat what matters is dua for the victims. If someone does that by sitting at home or does it around a candle vigil or does it in between one minute silence or after reciting some surahs from Quran, its all good. You and me may prefer last option, others may not find that tofeeq and opt for other options.
where he described three ways of how to fight unjust (Talwaar, zabaan, ya kam az kam dil main hee buraa samajhnaa)