Life Partner Wanted: Prefer someone with a child or two.....

[Reha]

Re: Life Partner Wanted: Prefer someone with a child or two…

@S_and_S

but can’t anything happen to anyone ay any time? whether its infertility or not, other things can happen to anyone. i dont find it crazy.. but a little strange that hes SPECIFICALLY LOOKING for a woman with a child already…

its odd because usually people don’t go looking for a spouse in that scenario unless they have a personal connection to that person or are in love with someone with a child or whatever. the idea of it isnt odd, its odd that hes specifically only looking for someone in that situation. it would be different you said he is OPEN to it but it seems to be clear that hes ONLY looking for a person with a child already…all because of a “what if” ??

well what if he marrys this person, god forbid it but gets sick, or something else happens? or his family gives them issues and make the life of this child even more difficult? i dont know im just, what if?

People that go looking for this specific scenario (and I’ve met such people actually in the rishta scene - no joke) are usually those that are truly looking for a family but feel that by the time they get married…that may not be possible or really hard. They want to be a parent to a child and instead of adopting, they want to find a woman who might be looking for a caring partner and not necessarily a father for her son but someone who can at least be kind to her child.

Step parenting IS hard and in many situations step parents are ACCEPTING their spouse’s kids from another marriage. In this scenario, a guy is WILLINGLY marrying a woman with a child…completely different.

Who knows if this guy knows what he is doing but I will say…the people I have met who are looking for such a match are very sincere about wanting to be involved in a child’s life.

And I find that to be a beautiful thing.