Life Partner Wanted: Prefer someone with a child or two.....

[terebina786]

Re: Life Partner Wanted: Prefer someone with a child or two…

@chips6

No offense to the OP or the person who is being talked about here,but I do find it a bit weird.
There is nothing wrong with marrying a divorced woman or a widow,with or without kids.But this person wants to marry someone who has a kid already so that to assure he does not have to face any fertility issues,if any…??Because this is what I understood.
He needs to be informed about the thing called ‘secondary infertility’,where the first kid happens easily,but it takes years to conceive the second one.What will he do then…?
He might have best intentions,but to me it just sounds he wants it in a way where he does not have to face any medical issues and that sounds weird to me (like someone said he wants a working oven,in an earlier post).What if God forbid,God forbid the woman he marries develops some other medical issue?He can’t possible check the potential wife for every ailment known..!
Isn’t marriage supposed to be something where both partners support each other no matter whatever the circumstances are and however the issues evolve during a marriage..?..

I think you misunderstood. The guy wants/prefers a wife with a pre-existing child so he can have a shot at fatherhood WITH the pre-existing child, not necessarily have another one by the same woman.

I think its refreshing to see a man think like this. My aunt and uncle adopted because they both had issues, the process was VERY long and VERY drawn out. Similarily, a coworker of mine is trying to adopt from India and its been 4 years and still nothing has come of it except money spent.