life before marriage vs after marriage

Yeah, apart from forced/pressured marriages, dowry issues etc. we’re also one of the few cultures that actively practises the caste system, can’t get much more hypocritical or messed up than that.. so much drama and BS comes from that alone and still a lot of us are too proud and reluctant to move away from it.. Imo Malaysians are the most sincere and open-minded but generally ppl from that part of the world are far more tolerant and forward-thinking than we are anyway..