life before marriage vs after marriage

hmm may be, lakin apna apna experience hai…pakistani ppl generally try to do things their way using islam lot more than any other nation I came across so far, it is very sad. take this forum for examples there are so many issue that ppl discuss and you don’t see those in a lot of other muslim nations. Simple things like shadi and jaheez is turned into unbearable burdens and made un-necessarily complex..