wasey no disrespect to your friend, lakin why some one would want to jhonkofy themselves in such situations, this is life and it is very real, and it stings. One of my mamoons who is super super rich has just two daughters, ppl used to say he will buy damads who will treat his daughter like queens, which is a very stupid thought in itself, but he made sure both daughters got married in the same type of families, why struggle when you don’t have to. Again this is LIFE and not a movie…ke hero ne khood ko prove karne ke liye duniya chor di. My mamoon gave both daughter tons of city property but these girls don’t need it but it is there for their use. Yes money is not everyting but it does buy you peace of mind esp if you have kids. Unless someone has aq reason like falling in love with someone who is not that well off, or fundamantal issues with parents then it is understandable that you want to break free and do on your own.
As a parent myself if my daughter or son want to experiment a simple lifestyle I would tell(hopefully convince) them to start from where I left off, not where my great-grand father started..sorry if I am annoying anyone by my comments.
I totally agree.
Its one thing to fall into bad times and the couple goes through it together, or even if its a “love” marriage where they’re both young/students and are knowingly going to struggle together..
but to willingly put yourself in that situation, especially in an arranged marriage? Not smart.