life b4 or After Marriage?

Lifestyle Relationships
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Was my thread moved:hmmm:

wooaaaahhhhhh ... !!!!
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Life is always better when shared by two.:chai:

Timepass -September 2012
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ur right im not ready to get married, but i dont wanna enjoy being single either, coz then im gonna miss it to much:bummer:

Timepass -September 2012
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true :biggthumb
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If you get an amazing better half your life will be more interesting after marriage.Like you will get an additional caring person in your life including your parents sis,bro etc.
so Its like Icing on the cake.

And every girl knows how to cook and keep their homes in an immaculate condition.
So donot worry about these household chores
:)

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Re: life b4 or After Marriage?

im not definitely married yet, but i blv life will b good after marriage :)

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hmm not if she takes her dowry with her which includes the “bed set” :snooty:

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I've said this many times. I will say it again. They both can not be compared. They are both two different beautiful phases of life. and of course after the "single phase" you must move forward to the "marraige phase" which I personally believe could be the best one if you get a great partner.

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Re: life b4 or After Marriage?

^ Thats right...these are phases of life you have to go through and the single phase wont last forever.

Ive thought about the same things CE...its wierd knowing you will have to share your room with a guy. Forget my sister or friend, but a guy?!?!?!

On the other hand, I think about how nice it would be to make dinner for him, to have my own home to decorate and set up as I wish, to have my own system of doing things, etc. Its got to be nice to have a person who can be there for you no matter what!!!!

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hehe lol exactly....some people just assume 2 much :p

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lolss nope not really

i am married but my husband wants me to finish up ma studies…
huh i thought the same :frowning:

oh well 2 more years and than 1 more year in law school
a very long way to go

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all I gotta say is that if your partner is someone you have to pick up after, then he needs to grow up. Most educated and mature people would be considerate enough when it comes to stuff like smelly socks! - I mean c'mon...

and re: your wishful thinking comment, in my social circle of Pakistani families, the husbands and wives do things together. In my own case, she cooks and does laundry while I take care of the cleaning and often with groceries. Perhaps, not an even split but I try to help wherever else I can.

I also know of desi couples where the wife is the primary bread winner and the husband does more work around the house cuz he works a 9:00 to 5:00 strictly office job.

So to say that Pakistani men don't help around the house or pick up after themselves is a gross generalization.

6th September 1965 - A neutral perspective
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Thnx, let's hope it is the best phase of our lifes. Inshallah....

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ur such a Diamond,

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your own home, your own way to set up things. honey ..uuh. are you forgetting that you will have a mil.

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^ Even if there is no MIL, what about your partner’s opinion, PS2? Don’t count on having “your own system of doing things” too much. :halo:

Raza Rabbani as interim PM?
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what do u mean? im sure eventually she will one day, wont she?

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Re: life b4 or After Marriage?

Most married men prefer to stay quiet when such questions are asked.

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^ lol

KKF ki farmaesh p:)
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Ahhhh, CE - she may or she may not. The point is it’s not guaranteed that one day she will set up her house just the way she’s always wanted, i.e. she could be living with in-laws, her husband could dislike her ideas, etc.

Married life doesn’t necessarily mean you get to have your own system of doing things - in fact, I’d argue you have more of your own system in your parents house than your husband’s.

Anyway, I think PSquared knows what I am talking about, right PS2 :halo: ? :smiley: