I can understand what youre saying. married couples have a totally different mindset than the elders (mom dad etc). In fact, you will see a HUGE difference between a couple livin with in laws and one livin separately! their lifestyle changes drastically in both cases. in my case, i m livin separately (Hurray!!) and enjoyin each and every second of it. We come and go as we please. we eat, sometimes we dun, we wear any clothing we want inside home, we do EVERYTHING and anything cus we are free, we do not need to worry abt others. if u live with in laws u r constantly under pressure to involve them in everythin plus u have to think a million times before you say or do somethin both individually or as a couple.
so nuclear family system all the way!!! 