life b4 or After Marriage?

I do. I think its a mixed situation though.

For instance, I could come to my parents’ house and lay around like a bum watching movies all day. I couldnt do that if I lived with in-laws. They would throw me out!!!

On the other hand, my mom has her way of running the house, her kitchen set up the way she likes it, etc. If I lived on my own with my hubby, we could set up house as we wished. That would be fun!

I guess by my own system, I mean a couple usually has their own lifestyle they come up with according to their habits, likes, dislikes, etc. Kwim? Any married couples that can attest to this???