dunno what to do.. so used to being married
get a job.. find something to keep ur self busy.. take a vacation.. think about stuff.. be with friends.. n just spend time with family :-)
btw.. afsoos howa. i hope everything works out for the best.
It will take some time.........but keep yourself busy, this time will pass and things might seem really bad now but it will get better......I know it sounds like a bunch of bull........but believe me it will, this is coming from a person who has gone through it and survived.........and better things will come!!
Good Luck
huh. When did this happen?. How's your daughter?. Is she with you?. I hope he didn't make her an issue in settlement. I believe you are in the US. The divorce laws lean towards womn here, so you should get a good lawyer and take him to the cleaners. I am prolly saying too much. Let me know if you wana hear more and I can be of some moral support.
very sad news :(
Aww sweetheart. It’s going to take time adjusting to being a single parent now. Occupy yourself with your children and work. Try not to sit around and mull over the ifs and buts. As of yet you are separated rite? Would there be any chance of you guys getting back together, try if you know its possible, but if it will only worse the situation further then accept what has happened. I wish you all the best and hope that you can resolve the situation peacefully.
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Are you kidding me? :-(
PM me your tele...foran!!
I hope I didn’t read what I just read…
it is sad news indeed ! after seeing your happily married faces and your sweet daughter. :( May allah bless you and your children
I’m not lying when I tell you I cried when I read that…God give you the strength sis…
All I can say is you got your daughter who is worth living a happy life for…a life of promise and faith…don’t let her feel this negativity for too long…
I know it’s hard but ACT positive with her…do MORE fun stuff with her..not only will it help her..but you’ll feel more confident about yourself..confident to know that you are enough for her…emotionally and physically.
You’re a brave lady…your courage and confidence was stamped on every word I ever read from you…and I KNOW that you got the heart and mind to get through this.
I am but a kid..if I have said anything wrong please forgive me…my paryers are with you and your daughter.
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Are we talking a permanent seperation or just seperated cause hes out of town or something?
Thats sad, I'm sorry for hearing this. I think if you are young, then you could get married again.
Be brave Anchal, judging from the replies, it seems you are a brave woman. I really don't know u that well, but my heart goes out to you.
I know it is going to be hard, but don't worry, this won't remain the same for long. You can get married again( if u wish) or just continue with your life, have fun with your kids, concentrate on work. It isn't that necessary to have a man in life.
I hope your life stabilizes soon enough and you find happiness again.
Dunno what to say except Good luck wish you the very best because you deserve it.
This can't be true...what's going on Anchal :(
Nadz: yeh kab huvaa ?
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:( really afsoos howa......
wishing u luck...........
n do something... the more u think abt past the more u get frustrated...... n look towards Allah........ i hope everything will be fine...........
Anchal Im so sorry to hear this
Wish u all the best indeed
OOOh, I am sorry to hear that Anchal!
Wish u all the best.
im sooo sorry to hear that:( i hope everything works out, may Allah give you strength,i hope the lil gals are fine:flower1:
my best wishes & prayers with u aanchal:flower1: