Re: Life after marriage
Most definitely NOT true.. But, there has to be a balance. OP is the type of person who cannot seem to let her parents go at all, and that is not healthy either (why get married ?) .. Spending the night at your parents house that frequently, anyone will say is a big no-no. Staying here cuz someone is sick and needs attention or something, is a special cirumstance, but besides that, not necessary at all.. that is the main issue here.. the rest, there is alot of compromise, and many newlyweds don’t realize that.. count your blessings, some have it alot worse than OP is mentioning..
everyone is close to their parents and it hurts when you have to leave their home .. I had to do it too, and after 6 monthsof being married, I still miss them as if I left yesterday ( I live about an hour away now), but it’s something a woman has to do. it doesnt change my love in a negative way, but in fact, I appreciate them a heck of alot more now since I cant see them everyday.. and I tear up from sheer missing them when I speak to them on the phone. But, I would never compromise my own home with my husband, or vice versa.