Life after marriage

[Paheli00]

Re: Life after marriage

@newbee13

I don’t know who to share my feelings with. I can’t cry in front of my family. But I feel my heart is so heavy and my head is dizzy and stomach weak with nausea.. What do I do? I feel like I’ll just collapse I know all this is not a lot. I never thought of this in my worse nightmare even.

1. Why don’t you share your feelings with your husband? He is fully aware of what’s going on and is supporting you. Why can’t you cry in front of him in the privacy of your bedroom?

2. Please don’t act that shocked. You knew how your in-laws were before the ruksati. You knew how controlling your FIL was and you knew that your in-laws weren’t very social. You also knew your husband wasn’t capable of standing up to his parents.While the situation is awful, please don’t pretend that any of this is a surprise to you.

3. You run a business…do you not go outside the house for work? Does your FIL work during the day? I’m confused about how your FIL or MIL (who lives in a diff. country) know what you do during the day? If you go outside the home for work…how does FIL/MIL know whether you’re meeting up a friend for lunch during the day or even meeting your family for few hours? And if your FIL works…how does he even know when you’re in or outside the home during the day?