because sometimes they are not ALLOWED to do so before getting married. What many men dont realize is that the , as sbands, are often perceived to women as their “saviour”, or their way to a better life (not so much financially but in terms of freedom). And this mentality is not their fault. Ill give you an example my cousin, livg back in Pak has always wante to travel. While her brothers were loowed to study overseas, she was always told “You can travel with your husand when you are married”. She ned to do a two month internship in a diferent part of Pakistan and was told “When you get married bla bla bla…”. Men take their freedom for granted. Anyhow, settling down after marriage does not have to include constantly sitting on your couch. It can include some traveling, even just a weekend away. Or sharing a hobby together. Being romantic and spontaneous Once in a while, all within financial means.
Exactly! Many guys do not understand that for many girls, marriage is freedom, so they want to use that opportunity to get out and travel. Well said overall!