Life after marriage

[Gaia]

@fanna

I know this has been said to death, but I honestly think you need to get social. Yes, the masjid is far from you but find other ways of meeting people. Find the mosque website, perhaps from there you can contact someone and meet people. If not, if you say you work try and talk to some of the females you work with and perhaps connect with one or two and go out to lunch with them at work. Its not that hard. Find out what they like and try and have a genuine conversation about it and other things. Keep busy with these friends and you’ll have fun in no time. Pick up a hobby, join a club at school if there is one. These are all things that will keep you happy and forget your problems with the hubby. In no time, your hubby will see how social and desired by others you are and he’ll want to change for the better. Just try it. I know it can be frustrating having a friend who gets busy but make efforts to find others and they shall come to you

@fanna

You’ll be fine I’A…trust me. You mentioned financial trouble and if you save and slowly pay off bills you should be fine and I am sure your husbands attitude will change as well. He is too stressed to thionk of other things especially those that cost money but you told me you are saving and will have things paid off by end of year. Thats seems like a long time but I know you can do it. You seem like such a positive person or so I could tell from chatting with you. Keep your head up and you’ll be finnnnnee.

I’m so confused, Fanna who are you giving this advice too ???