see sara right now the complain is that the compromise is usually in favor of the dude … well it can never be dab smack in the middle … so someones gonna lose somewhere … and i completely agree settling down doesn’t mean less fun … but its just that the idea of fun maybe different … like i’d love to sit down with a good book and a bag of chips …s ome ppl might find that boring and their idea of fun might be going out shoppin or something … or instead of going to a hustling bustling place like NYC the guy wants to go to some place serene or quiet like those campin things or hiking and the grl thinks its so boring and lame … my solution would probably be i pick the place once and u get to pick the place the nxt time but it usually does’nt quite work out htat way