Liar Liar, Chaddis on Fire!

[LP]

@BarbieCue

LP: el oh el ur the teacher? Mashallah! aww thats cute.

i’m not tht little you see

[soundarya]

The guy is most likely ashamed of his profession. And honestly, I don’t blame him. The Pakistani society (and others) have a really hard time accepting guys as nurses. It’s like the only possible profession in the medical field can be daactaaar. That being said, if the guy is really good in all other aspects and the girl decides to to leave him immediatly after finding out about the lie, then I think she MIGHT be a little shallow too. Maybe she was more into him because he was a doctor? She wanted to be the rich doctor’s wife? The girl might not be that perfect either. I don’t know about nurses in other countries, but in the US, they work hard and make a good amount of money. It’s still a living that is halal. I would leave him if he didn’t work at all or couldn’t afford his own place, was dependent on others.

@Sehrysh

From what I remember, the guy despite being lied to stuck it out because he was shareef and he took his marriage vows seriously.

@NaMaan

Oh well its good to enjoy that night and think about other stuff later

:k: I think the marriage should at least be given a shot, but maybe not enjoy the night like Namaan is suggesting

@lifeless

this is why why the guy/girl should have some communication prior to marriage, even when it’s an arranged marriage.

AGREE! :k: I think people rely too much upon information passed between the parents.

[NaMaan]

Re: Liar Liar, Chaddis on Fire!

^ yea right don’t agree with me , only because I am brown . You all sux

[BarbieCue]

^ who said anything about skin colour? ur sucha cry baby

[Shak]

Re: Liar Liar, Chaddis on Fire!

Barbie kyun iis kisam kay daronay sawaal karti ho :(

[LP]

Re: Liar Liar, Chaddis on Fire!

shak dar gaye:omg:
thts a 1st shak:faizy:

[GlamDoll]

i'd be sooo pissed..i hate lying very bad..it would be a serious situation very serious

[BarbieCue]

^ lemme fix u up with Shak

[soundarya]

@NaMaan

^ yea right don’t agree with me , only because I am brown . You all sux

I didn’t know you were brown. I thought you were pink

[Scarface]

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What a useless thread

[NaMaan]

@soundarya

I didn’t know you were brown. I thought you were pink

Smarty pants

[PyariCgudia]

@BarbieCue

Ok I just finished my exams and GS is boring the heck outta me so I’m gonna start this thread…

**Let’s say u had an arranged marriage. What u and ur family knew about ur hubby was that he was a physician… but on the wedding night, u find out that he and his family have lied to you and your family and that he is actually a nurse, not earning a whole load, but good enough… what would u do? **

Gentlemen: Let’s say u also find out on ur wedding night (HAS to be the wedding night, or else the dilemma is no fun!) that ur wife is having an affair… what would u do?

Serious replies only please

That happened to a friend of mine, except, he actually did go to med school, but had not passed some exams and his degree was pending his passing the exams. Except he failed Step 1 a bunch of times, and there was an issue of him even getting the degree because he failed it so many times.

The guy’s family did not tell her family. They told the family that he is graduating and will be starting residency in a certain city. SHE MOVED to that city, disrupting her own residency training to start a new training in that city. Only to find out he was not graduated, and had these issues.

To top it off, he also had psychiatric issues and was on meds for it, and as he was refusing to take his medications, she had to deal with his behavior issues. The family also failed to mention anything about his medical problems.

The marriage lasted a few months. Needless to say.

Things like this actually happen where boys’ families lie about the livlihood of the guy. The girl finds out after the marriage. Why do you think detective services, ishtikharas are so sought after when setting up marriages? I know parents who show up at the guy’s work randomly just to see if he actually works there and will talk to the guy’s boss and his coworkers to get an idea of what kind of person he is.

[BarbieCue]

@PyariCgudia

To top it off, he also had psychiatric issues and was on meds for it, and as he was refusing to take his medications, she had to deal with his behavior issues. The family also failed to mention anything about his medical problems.

This is where it gets worse!

@PyariCgudia

Things like this actually happen where boys' families lie about the livlihood of the guy. The girl finds out after the marriage. Why do you think detective services, ishtikharas are so sought after when setting up marriages? I know parents who show up at the guy's work randomly just to see if he actually works there and will talk to the guy's boss and his coworkers to get an idea of what kind of person he is.

I would have thought, istikharas, detectives, over-protective parents were a joke! But now after getting an idea of how common this deception is among families, I can so see myself dressing up in a black abaya, with black sunglasses, just to spy on whatever khota wants to marry my daughter in the future!

[Maham]

Re: Liar Liar, Chaddis on Fire!

Even if someone is bighearted enough to let go off such a big lie, it wud still remain with them and i doubt that they wud ever be able 2 trust their spouse 100% and that's not good.

[Malik_Zulfi]

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There is so much investigation goes through such matters at least in Pakistan. Even i have received two calls about a person regarding rishta investigation but if such case happens then there is no hope for this marriage.