Sehrysh: he was gay??? … i shouldn’t be laughing, the poor girl! You have some nice spicy stories Sehrysh!
Lifey: As u said, nursing is a respectable career and so I wouldn’t divorce him or anything… But if he turned out to be a chokidaar or something i’d leave him, no joke! … remember i don’t love him yet, i was arranged married.. doctor to chokidaar?? BIGGG lie! … at least nursing is a bit closer! lol
ofcourse i would be… oh i’d go crazy… i wouldn’t talk to him for aaages… i’d cry n cry n cry… and then someone like urself would come along n say, “look, nursing ain’t all that bad, he’s going good for himself, he’s a nice guy.. give him a chance and if he lies again.. then its up to u what u want to do”
and then i’d be like… fine
and then he’d have to uthaa my nakhray for the rest of his life…
**Unfortunately both have happened in our extended family and friends.
In the first scenario the boys family lied that he has an undergraduate degree and will start working soon. The marriage is still on after about 10 years, only because both of the families are jahil to the fullest and do not believe in divorce. The wife is now working and fully supporting her children while he does nothing but smoke and eat. He has still yet to work a day in his life.
Jahill much???
The next scenario was a family friend, who got married to a chick in Pakistan who was cheating/ in love with another guy and everyone found out after the nikah, because her “lover” came to express his love to her on her wedding night !!! This ended in divorce. **
LP: u know u have more options before marriage than u do after marriage… if he lied to u and u caught him before marriage, it’d be easier to break up… tanu mein training deni hai roz din mein ek ghanta life1 tey ana hai samjhi? Do din mein mardon ko seedha karna seekh jao gi ..
*Unfortunately both have happened in our extended family and friends.
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Oh my! When I opened this thread I was just being totally random, thought it'd be fiction... can't believe this stuff goes on so commonly... yup the dude is jaahil n nikamma... fair play to the woman for supporting her family... and yeah the other one did deserve a divorce !
a person who can lie once can lie again....................... next time he might lie bigger than this...................... i can never trust a person who can lie to such an extent.......... there is no reason to live wth tht person whom u can never trust
thts my opinion..........
no no leave punjabi outta this… the first lecture will be tomorrow at 9 AM sharp. The topic will be *“how to know if he’s lying to you: Facial expressions”
no no leave punjabi outta this... the first lecture will be tomorrow at 9 AM sharp. The topic will be "how to know if he's lying to you: Facial expressions"