How easy is it for you to let go of a person, especially if the person is a close friend or a spouse?
How do you cope up with it?
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not talk about it.
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I'd say letting go of anyone depends on the nature of the split or disagreement. Mostly if you're the one initiating the split, you will find it easier to let go (Relatively of course). And if the other person initiates it, then I'm sure it isn't as easy.
Speaking from experience, it wasn't that much of a problem because it was a mutual decision. So it was a non-issue.
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There is no coping.....time does the job..
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I'd say letting go of anyone depends on the nature of the split or disagreement. Mostly if you're the one initiating the split, you will find it easier to let go (Relatively of course). And if the other person initiates it, then I'm sure it isn't as easy.
Speaking from experience, it wasn't that much of a problem because it was a mutual decision. So it was a non-issue.
Isn't letting go difficult even for the person who initiates it?!
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Isn't letting go difficult even for the person who initiates it?!
Not as much as the person who got handed the decision. The person initiating it puts the wheels on the idea and has the incentive (Positive or Negative) so I'd go with them having an easier time, relatively.
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That was my reaction to that post too. I don’t think it’s always the person who initiates it who has it easier because they may just be more intelligent and wiser one of the two who can see it not working?!
As for letting go, just like Naeem Bukhari says “Chad k te vaikh” 
but it’s not easy at all :p. Knowing myself as an extreemly emotional and sensitive individual, i can tell it would be very hard on me if God forbid i ever get into such a situation. However i don’t think those who let go lack emotions or sentiments, they are just stronger, wiser and more aware people :k:.
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it's never easy to let go anyone who has been close to you. one must, however, try his/her best to reverse that loved one's decision but if it's NOT possible at all then separate with dignity. vo kahte haiN na k Husn-e-sulook ke saath taa k bad-mazgii kam se kam ho aur agar na ho to isse bahtar kia ho saktaa hai.
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it wasnt but i started replacing people with pillows and stuffed toys or even plastic bottles? The new people werent too talkative but at least i had no issues with them.
on a more serious note, it has always been difficult for me to let go but then if u dont let go of people you can never make room for newer ones.
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True! :hinna:
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Depends on the kind of relationship you shared, some are easier to 'let-go' of while others may take a really long time. In either case though, time makes it bearable if not easy.
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Get yourself occupied in other things...
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its really hard....it has been 3 yrs or may be more..tht i dnt talk 2 them or they to me..but nevertheless i cnt forget them..
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waqat sab sai bara marham hai (time is the best healer)
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^ jinu angraizi tey urdu nai aandi, oday wastay punjabi translation vi ker do. Marebani
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^ vela sab nu wadi dawaiee eeey
thats my best punjabi 
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:k: Great, if u actually dont speak punjabi then it was great.