…after death.
Idea from TLK thread..
How many would do that and tell beforehand in case of his/her death that other spouse can re-marry?
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We've talked about it. Meri taraf se he's free to remarry, whether he chooses to or not is up to him.
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I second Sara516 but he cant re-marry while I am alive... :p
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I dont believe we wives will be sakoon se in graves if our husbands re-marry. Poor husbands. Many will still be so scared of their wives to do any such thing. 
what if the ghost of the dead wives comes back. And I have this secret belief it might. lol.
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LOL it reminds me of that movie where Eva Longoria was haunting her fiance from her grave so he won’t go out with any girl… 
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It would kill me but what would it matter if I am already dead? He can marry or dance around naked after I am gone. 
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I used to say that he can remarry in case I die....but after I had m daughter,I don't want him to even think about it....!!
and btw when I used to tell him that he can remarry ,he used to say ''no,once was enough"...!!...:D
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He should marry, but marry wisely to a woman who will take care of my children. No one expects that she will love them like a mother, but warm and polite care, a genuine interest in their lives would suffice. Also, she better take good care of my husband or I'll haunt her from the grave.
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so kids are better off with a second mommy/dad (who might not treat the kids right/ kids may not accept her) or with no mommy/dad??
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Hard to say nomi.
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Yes, he/she should remarry.
For those who are saying No, why not?
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i am dead. why bother about the world.
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Fully up to him. Dead people don't feel jealous.
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so kids are better off with a second mommy/dad (who might not treat the kids right/ kids may not accept her) or with no mommy/dad??
How do you think someone can be better off with someone who treats them like crap? (in the case that the second spouse is not nice to the kids)?
I'd like to say that most ppl who remarry will think of their kids first and marry someone who loves their kids too, but some of the examples I've seen....sadly it doesn't look like that's the case. Very sad indeed
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We’re not even married yet, but we talked about this. He has my full support in getting married but to a good, sensible, caring woman. Someone who can take care of him, like I do/ would. And can be good to his parents.
Also, I’d prefer she be less prettier than me 
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I said to my husband that if I die, he should/can re-marry but he never ever says it back to me that I can re-marry if he dies.
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how can I stop my spouse to do whatever he feels like for his life even when im alive. We all are born free and marriage is a bond, why make it a bondage. 
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my question for the lovely emotional ladies over here is:
why do you discuss such things with your life partners or in same cases with to be ones? Ask me, from a third person's point of view, it shows a complete sense of insecurity and let me tell you this secret, never ever show your insecurities in front of your spouse. you just trust them, unconditional. thats it. you die or they die. what the heck man? thank to God you both are alive and just enjoy your life as much as you can. One will have to die before the other anyway. To me it sounds something like complete pack of emotional rubbish. Sorry sisters if I sounded rude. But we need to grow up and more sensible. these promises and vows of after death? yuck. get a life.
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I mean, he can...if he wants, but :(
Yes, he/she should remarry.
For those who are saying No, why not?
What does your nick say? I mean I've tried to write it out but it makes no sense =/
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We have discussed it, I told him he should re-marry after a decent period of time around 2-3 years. He says he would not get married untill our youngest child was 18 as he would not trust another women to raise our children. To be honest I don't know if would ever re-marry but if he died before we have children I guess I would because I want kids.