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I mean, he can...if he wants, but :(
What does your nick say? I mean I've tried to write it out but it makes no sense =/
Khumz, that's one of the hurf e muqataat from the Quran...the disjointed letters... kaaf, haa, yaa, ayn, saad
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Khumz, that's one of the hurf e muqataat from the Quran...the disjointed letters... kaaf, haa, yaa, ayn, saad
I thought so, but I wanted to make sure. Thanks! =D
ps teehee i see what you did there :D
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kithey? 
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othay na 
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I can't even think about it. Someone else living in my house, taking care of my kids and my husband.
My main concern would be the kids. I would want him to be happy (but just a little bit) after I am gone.
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......after death.
Idea from TLK thread..
How many would do that and tell beforehand in case of his/her death that other spouse can re-marry?
She wouldn't need my permission anyway.
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Why does he need to get remarried? He'll have my corpse, like that Asian dude.
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Why would he or she need permission from you before you die? They should re-marry whenever they feel its appropriate.
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So has to kill you for that 
When my dad was alive, my mother (because she used to watch so many dramas and movies where mother always die first and kids are raised by some horrible step mother) used to believe (or hope) that she would die first. We had this lady in our extended family who never got married. She was more like the crazy cat woman of Simpsons (and sorry to say, quite unattractive otherwise too). My mom used to tell my dad that if I ever die before you, you should marry her because kids would be needing a mother. We all used to giggle on the choice of mom and used to sympathize with dad that mom is planing to leave him with such a ‘wonderful’ prize.
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oye kitney dus na mennu
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I dont think there is any need to discuss that. We all should have enough security in our married life to understand that once we are gone, our spouse will make a decsion about his/her future based on what is best for the family and their future. If it requires never to get married, great. If it means to get remarry, that should be fine.
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Khumz, that's one of the hurf e muqataat from the Quran...the disjointed letters... kaaf, haa, yaa, ayn, saad
Really ?? Sorry if I ever disrespect your nick :(
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Kinzz...not my nick...this other person...see above.
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Oh 
…you replied the post I though u are talking about your nick…anyways…thanks for nice information 
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Have never discussed it but i would like him to marry again if i passed away sob. Someone kind and caring. Wouldnt want him to be alone. Myself, honestly cant say that i would remarry.
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i'd let him marry after my death....there is no chance i can stop this happening so i might take the honour of giving him the permission.
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I would re-marry if my wife passed away. And i do expect same from her. Everybody needs somebody in this world.