A very close friend of yours turns out to be a lesbian/gay. He/She tells you that they like you a lot and think of you all the time. What would be your course of action? Would you try to get them medical help or just help in general? Would you severe all ties from them and never see their face again or talk to them again?
I had a friend who turned out to be gay. He got so deprived of social interaction that he committed suicide. This is what brought this question to my mind.
I would disown him. Islam clearly states this crap is not allowed. TO me it's like a manimals or men that become serial killers. No body is born that way, you become that way and that's the bottom line because stone cold steve austin said so.
A very close friend of yours turns out to be a lesbian/gay. He/She tells you that they like you a lot and think of you all the time. What would be your course of action? Would you try to get them medical help or just help in general? Would you severe all ties from them and never see their face again or talk to them again?
I had a friend who turned out to be gay. He got so deprived of social interaction that he committed suicide. This is what brought this question to my mind.
I'd just tell them that i'm not their type. I would probably cut down on the amount I talk to them. If they try to commit suicide then yes I will definitely help them out. It just depends on the situation.
i think this gay lesbo thing is crap and btw...QURAN SAYS IT CLEAR **jab zinah or same sex ke log hum bistery kerte hien tu zameen Allah myan se dua kerti he ke muje hukm de tu me phutke inhe nigal loon aur asman kehta he ke me bheek mangta hon mujhe inper aaj tootkr girne de
**exact words nahi he but this is wht it means ....
so for me ur friends is on a very wrong path and as a friend u shud tell him to changes his/her ways if he/she lstns to u then u shud leave him/her on his/her own....... cuz *kafir yeh koi gunagar....un chand logon ki terhan hote hein jo undhere me us wakt tak khude rehte ehin jab tak bijli asman pe na kudke aur ushi bijli ki roshni me woh 2 kadam agay badhte hein..... unki ankh kaan moonh aur zehnyat per pati bundhi hoti he unhe na kuch dikhta he na kuch sunai deta he aur na hi kuch mehsoos hota he...... *
aik chamat lagaoon ka uss ko.. saray gay/lesbian-ism bahir ajaaye ga...
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waisay i would talk to him/her and try my level best to show them why it is wrong to think like that and help him/her recover.. i will try this first if that fails then i will keep my distance from him/her
I've been though this. I was the first person my friend told. I hugged her, told her I was delighted that she accepted herself for who she was, and that I would always support her.
Anyone who does otherwise isn't worth the air they breathe.
Homosexuality isn't a mental disorder. You ARE born like that. So many studies point to this being genetic. People can't control how they feel. Jesus Christ, gain a little compassion and understanding.
Matinee Siren i have been through this too but sadly my friend committed suicide because of all the desi mentality and tensions and pressure. He just could not stand it anymore.
i agree with matinee siren- ppl ARE born with this- and its defINATELY NOT mental-- and u know what im no one to tell sumone u shuldnt b gay or a lesbian -- what ever they are -- they want to b that for a reason - i have gay guy friends and there the sweetest people i kno -- i mean they cant change their lifestlye bc of what ppl say-- and especially our desi society-- first of all i think our desi society is the one who talks MOST in all cases- so i wuld def not take them to consider- i have 2 lesbian and 1 bi-sexual friend and one of them approached me and i sed im sorry i dont swing that way but u kno what were still friends- friendship shuld not change with a person once u find out if there gay/lesbian.. i agree its totally gunah and all lekin were not the ones who decide their fate its allah- so let them b- let em enjoy their lives like the rest of us do- theyll find their compatibility sumwhere but we shuldnt neglect them for what they are... thas abt it :)
in the case of gay/lesbian..its always the nature vs nurture thing.. with them, its always the nurture that overcomes nature... it is the society that makes them that way. Its just plain ridiculous.. i have never came across any gay/lesbian thus far.. and would like to meet a gay person and really wanna know what makes him that way.. like ya know, try to understand why he is what he is..
Ofcourse I would as long as the lesbo doesn’t hit on me 