Re: Left over women
The whole point of this debate was to discuss China’s leftover women. Some users thought this was a good opportunity to promote a socially damaging ideal so I wanted too suggest better solutions. I am the one who wants to encourage cross cultural marriages simply becaause of large gender imbalances like these in certain countries. In certain countries where women’s population is larger people usually parrot on and on about polygamy as being a realistic solution but when it comes to countries where there are more men than women in the world [in most countries the male population is larger than the female population] they take double standards and do not care about the excess men. It seems our men[and women] only care for the excess amounts of women and not the excess amount of men in numerous countries. It seems people like Namaan only want to take advantage of certain situations.
Would he ever suggest polyandry as a solution for the massive gender gap in most countries? [Religious issue aside]
Anyway polygamy is dangerous for society. Monogamous societies have historically always been safer due to the large vacuum of men who are unable to marry in polygamous societies due to less number of women availabale and men without families to support have usually taken to crime.
And leaving aside this fact there was another study on women in monogamous and polygamous relationships. The ones in monogamous relationships were on average less stressed and more emotionally relaxed than women in polygamous relationships.
Pir ji tusi great ho!