There is this great little Lebanese place not too far from where I work. A couple of weeks ago the wife and I went there for lunch and there was this good looking Lebanese guy at the register. I saw my wife sneaking a peek but I didn’t think too much about it; Just a pinch of jealousy. However, for the past few days, she has ‘surprised’ me three of four times by bringing Shawerma Sandwiches over for lunch at my work.
Should I act like a drama queen and make a big deal about it or keep my mouth shut and continue to enjoy the Shawermas? I can’t lie .. the pinch of jealousy is a pound already
take her to a resturaunt, where you will see a nice looking waitress, and next time your brings in the shawarma ask her not to cuz u will eat at that restaurant
j/k
ps. shaq is not good. recite surah noor if u have any shaq.
SO maybe she has a crush on the register boy, so what?
**Ask your wife about it, no need to keep you feelings under that yemmy shawarma, and let her know its not a big deal, and she should be able to tell you if she thinks he’s cute. I hope you have enough self confidence that you can handle it:smack:. Laugh/joke about it and keep it moving. **
Have you ever , during your marriage, seen a girl you thought was attractive?
This is a difficult one. If I were you I'd probably find it funny and have am open conversation about it and institute some protective measures that I will avoid discussing because it is all R rated.
Its gonna end with mistrust , misunderstandings and eventually have a snowball effect where your going to start a chain of events that isn't worth the trivial matter that it is now .
So she looked at a guy . She looks at a ton of guys at work , in the mall or at school ! So do you ......are you saying you've never checked out a girl ever after you got married ?
If your relationship with your wife is otherwise harmonious do not open your mouth and put your foot in it ! The basis of a marriage is trust . You should really learn to trust her if you expect her to trust you in return which I'm assuming you do !
So yea, confront her brother . She is your wife. If you can’t share your true feelings with her than who else. Just take a printout of this writing and give it to her. InshaAllah she will understand. :k:
