Lebanese Food :-)

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well if ure gonna mention it do it in a funny/joking way. u seem like that type :p

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Re: Lebanese Food :slight_smile:

what a cute thread :cb:
You can always tease her about it, I think that would be funny.
Atleast thats what my husband would do…I think.

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Hmmm, one thing to keep in mind is that.....by bringing the shawarma to you.......she's OPENLY **showing you that she has been to that Lebanese restaurant with the good looking guy at the register. If she's being **OPEN with you about her activities while you are at work, that's a good thing.

IF **she was going to this restaurant several times a week......not telling you about it.......MAYBE that would be something to question. But, she's **not hiding **anything from you. When she brings you the food, that's basically a sign that she's comfortable with you **KNOWING where she was. Doesn't seem like there is a guilty conscience, lol.

****** Unless the shawarmas are her way of making up to you for the fact that she oggled the ravishing register guy in your absence. **LOL.....kidding.

So, she looked at another guy. Maybe her eyes just randomly/unintentionally fell upon him while she was looking around the room. It doesn't necessarily mean that she finds him attractive. And even if she does think he's cute..........she hasn't acted upon it. Even husbands **can find OTHER women besides their wife attractive. Enjoy your shawarmas. The fact that your wife has brought you a meal is a **SIGN that she remembered you....thought about you......a sign of consideration and affection.

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And She Promised Me Forever
And A Day We'd Live As One
We Made Our Vows
And She Promised Me In Secret
That She'd Love Me For All Time
It's A Promise So Untrue
Tell Me What Will I Do?

And It Doesn't Seem To Matter
And It Doesn't Seem Right
And The Reason Why She Left Me
Did She Find In Someone Else?

vo ajeeb shakhs thaa
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First things first. Never ask women for girl advise. They take it from an angle that well is obtuse. Secondly this forum, hell no. If I wanted a divorce I would send the Mrs.to get ideas from these women.

Now does she normally bring you lunch? How often has she brought these lunches over? Is it a once in a week thing or 3 or 4 lunches in a period of 1 week? Frequency denotes the purpose really.

As for your delimma. You have to choices. Confront and deal with the blow back. And I am talking about serious blowback. Issues that will come up are:

  1. Denial
  2. You don't trust her
  3. You are dumbass for not trusting her.
  4. You are being crazy jealous - when you aren't being one.

However I do recommend this strat simply because it will lead to a better marriage in my opinion. Do not confront her, but be a bit straight forward. While eating the shawarma ask her does she go there for the food or the man candy? See how she reacts. The idea is to place her on the backfoot. If she gets nervous and stuff. You got your answer and then have a frank discussion with her.

Open lines of communication are much better than storing up bull**** for a long period of time.

Second Strat is more of a dickhead move. It is not communication orientated but more guilt orientated. Next time she brings the shawarma home, look at it and say Again? Nah. Not today. It seems you are addicted to that store for one reason or another. And go out and get yourself something you like. Show that you don't like the idea of the shawarma or her going there without saying anything. It will most definitely cause her to be upset and it will cause trouble in the relationship.

But the question is how do you wish to handle it.

Lastly don't forbid her to go there. If she continues, find some female eye candy and step out to lunch to that location when she is supposed to come to you with some lunch.

But when you fight fire with fire, everybody gets burned.

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Hey, if the roles were reversed, this thread would of gone to 10 pages already, with all these women going crazy like hell.

IMO, just ask her "Why the shwarmas? Can't you bring me home cooked food?!"

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Keeep stuffing your mouth ...dont worry about it. At max go to some Israeli restaurant and find some cute gal :)

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Re: Lebanese Food :slight_smile:

^make the woman do more work…what else do you expect from men:chai:

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I'm with Gaia, if it is bothering you enough to post it here, talk to her, in a non-confrontational way. We're all human, we're visual creatures. Tell her how you feel without making her feel bad. Sometimes, when you've been married for a while, you get stuck in a rut.

In my opinion, most women don't really have eyes for anyone other than their man, no matter how fat, bald, ugly, and retarded he gets over the years, so if she's sneaking a peek here or there, maybe you should help each other get out of the rut, spice up your life, travel, do new things together.

I think if you are thinking about this, you need to talk to her, but be very careful not to scare her away. Good luck brother.

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Cute girl in an Israeli restaurant? I don't think it's an easy task. lol

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oh boy, them Israeli girls are BEAUTIFUL

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i agree....only few of 'em though.

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hmm could she be trying to make you jealous deliberately?

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Agree... If u don't speak honestly about it, this jealousy will turn into a big thing and ruin your relationship.

It is probably all in your head but u need to clear it up, don't approach it from an angle where u make her look bad, say u r ashamed to think this but the devil has put the thought in your head and now u can't get it out. If she says u r crazy of course there's nothing wrong then accept it.

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Cute idea!

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LOL@ "Compete for her affection"... He shouldn't have to compete for anything. He's her husband for God's sake.

Anyway, here's my advice (for what it's worth): Talk to her about it, in a jokative manner though.

However, I honestly doubt, there is really anything inappropriate going on between your wife and the "goodlooking Shwarma guy"... You saw her "checking him out", and now you're over-reacting. I don't think looking at the guy for second or two really meant anything to your wife (you should have a little more faith in her). It is natural to take a second look... or even third, when we see someone goodlooking/beautiful. So, either just drop it entirely or talk to her about it.

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Eeeek... Please tell me that was SARCASM.

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aaaah ... u know nothing about Israeli girls :)

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Stork

may be you should learn to cook at home for your wife.

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awwwwwwwwwwww that is so cute!!! (I mean you getting a lil jealous)

Hmmm, now maybe she really did like the shawermas. Maybe she needs time off from cooking...hey, why don't you just get her a gift certificate for a pedicure and manicure, then take her out for dinner (to another restaurant) and spend some alone time with her...