I know an example who's good at balancing out both mom and wife.... who says to his wife, it doesn't matter whether my mom is right or wrong, being my wife you just have to respect her and never answer back, come to me with any problems you have and I'll solve them, just remain quiet in front of my mom.
And he does the same, he doesn't answer back to his mom, respects her, loves her and makes her understand things very calmly and in a reasonable manner. Its not rocket science, you know.
Trust tau duur ki baat hay I won’t even respect that person any more. If a guy can leave a women who has taken care of him for 30 yrs wat’s the guarantee he won’t do the same to any 1 else. guys shud hv a backbone if nuthing else
I don't know what leaving your mother really means. Doesn't a girl leave her parents home when she gets married? Does that mean she has abandoned her parents for her husband? The guy should be willing to move out too and provide her a seperate home away from inlaws. I would never marry a man who is not willing to give me a seperate home from his parents.
^You're going to get the argument that sort of "leaving" is short-term........the latter is long-term.
When it comes to sons the 'short-term' excuse it pretty much always used, even when he's moving abroad to live and work. Only seems to be called 'abandoning parents' when there's a wife involved lol.. To a lot of desis it's almost as tho it's always a woman's fault, if it weren't for us evil creatures men would do no wrong..
