That is what I meant and yeah, that thread was at the back of my mind. Okay, let me rephrase... instead of stupid resons like gori honi chahiyay, lambi honi chahiyay, doctor honi chahiyay.... guys should focus on personality traits and getting to know the girl. Marrying on the basis of looks and the way she walks/talks is sheer stupidity.
mujhay aur kisi cheez kee tension nahi, sirf paisay waali honee chahiye aur khaana pakaana aana chahiye :D