See Mama's boy or Joroo ka ghulam is a perspective. From guys POV, he imaybe balancing things out but what if wife sees his respect towards his mom as him bieng mama's boy or when he takes care of his wife, mother thinks that my son is a Joroo ka ghulam.
Phir tau bechaara maara gaya, na idhar ka na udhar ka. Tough situation to handle.
Thats why I say instead of going for stupid things like my wife should be a virgin, guys should consider things like maturity, patience and the nature of the girl.