lol, you ppl are seriosuly messed up. Why does a guy have to be either Mama's boy or a selfish whatever?
Why can't he respect his mother, love her for what she is and also be considerate and loving with his wife? I just don't get it.
I know an example who's good at balancing out both mom and wife.... who says to his wife, it doesn't matter whether my mom is right or wrong, being my wife you just have to respect her and never answer back, come to me with any problems you have and I'll solve them, just remain quiet in front of my mom.
And he does the same, he doesn't answer back to his mom, respects her, loves her and makes her understand things very calmly and in a reasonable manner. Its not rocket science, you know.
But for that,i believe,a guy has to have a lot of patience.