Re: leave him??
Screw him! leave and enjoy life the way you want to - you dont want such a person, i.e. even if it was him willing to stand up for you - you could have been able to bear everything since he is there for you but in this situation you are alone in the other forum you didnt write as much detail so i had another reply but yes have faith in Allah (its not forbidden in Islam to get a divorce from your husband if the life has become so hard to live with him and his family). If your parents are willing to help you out talk to these folks for you and if your in- laws are decent enough to think over it and change their attitudes then its fine but you can live all your life like that and if you dont have kids then you are safer other wise you can sacrifice your mental peace for them and keep on bearing all the pain - but my advice dont; go away for some time see if they change and know your worth if not then just never go back.
hm marriage isnt a child game that if u r not feeling good about your partner one day then u can just leave him cuz Islam allows divorce.
Divorce is one of the things thats allowed in islam but still disliked and must be practiced with utmost consideration.
When having problems like the author of this post, its important to keep ur focus on problem solution not escaping from the problem. there is no guarantee that if u leave him, u will never meet such a family again. There are problems everywhere. its all a matter of how u solve them!!!