Re: Learned from my past relationships
If your heart is not in it from the get-go, you are most likely going to end up splitting up sooner or later. There's no such thing as forcing yourself to love someone... you actually end up resenting the other person more and more.
Some people just never change (for the better). They'll change for the worse... and when you find yourself being disrespected or treated as a doormat, the best thing you can do for yourself is to just leave the relationship...do not keep counting the days hoping for a miracle for the other person to change or stay in the relationship fearful of others reactions... because years will pass by.... things will not get better... by that time you'll already be be half crazy... whats the point of lying to others and showing a happy face? You cant lie to yourself.. you cant escape reality. No matter how many people talk and how many hawww haii's you have to hear... no one has the right to destroy your life and your soul.. you owe yourself happiness and love.