i learned that there is a LIMIT for everything, No one deserves too much attention.
i agree wit u on dis 190% lolz
and somethign else dat i learned is its gud too just let go of it instead of trying and trying for like 10000000th time. they will eentually realize . oo n ppl come n go u r never tied to anyone in the past. :)
Listen to your parents. They do have your best interest at heart and will never fail to guide you.
realize that your parents are not perfect and they may be doing what they sincerely believe is your best interest from their perspective and that may not be the case in reality because their perspective can be skewed based on their own experiences, biases, views and preferences...
learnt from my past relationships...
trust is #1 thing...if one can not be trusted or one violates your trust, its a bad foundation to build anything on.
realize that your parents are not perfect and they may be doing what they sincerely believe is your best interest from their perspective and that may not be the case in reality because their perspective can be skewed based on their own experiences, biases, views and preferences...
If your heart is not in it from the get-go, you are most likely going to end up splitting up sooner or later. There's no such thing as forcing yourself to love someone... you actually end up resenting the other person more and more.
Some people just never change (for the better). They'll change for the worse... and when you find yourself being disrespected or treated as a doormat, the best thing you can do for yourself is to just leave the relationship...do not keep counting the days hoping for a miracle for the other person to change or stay in the relationship fearful of others reactions... because years will pass by.... things will not get better... by that time you'll already be be half crazy... whats the point of lying to others and showing a happy face? You cant lie to yourself.. you cant escape reality. No matter how many people talk and how many hawww haii's you have to hear... no one has the right to destroy your life and your soul.. you owe yourself happiness and love.
learnt from my past relationships...
trust is #1 thing...if one can not be trusted or one violates your trust, its a bad foundation to build anything on.