"Last Seen"

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lol kids these days find a lot more then linkdin in eachorher, lol

wev all given u advice, its up to u what u do about it...she has another boyfriend..

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How can you deduce that she has a boyfriend? I have also confronted her with this, but she flatly refused even swearing on things that she wont waste my time if she did have a boyfriend.

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The military style hat could be intimidating. Would you consider losing it if that would serve to put her more at ease?

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online media is a dangerous game...anything can happen..u should b more about worried about ur life now then question my theories..lol

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Well honestly it sounds like both of u were arranged by parents and initially she gave you time cuz she was excited to get to know you but after getting to know you she is losing interest. Perhaps your personalities or interests don't match? Why not give her space and see how long it takes for her to start missing you.

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play hard to get it

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Delete it please

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This is not going to work** if** the other person is not into you anyway..

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so true....but thats the whole point to find out..wheather the other person is into or not?

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I have been ignoring her. She doesn't seem to care.

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is it ur first love/crush?

yeh the first few ones are always the hardest....dont worry beta...u will get used to it...shukur karo ye tumhein shaadi ke baad nuhi pata laga...

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No it's not like that, I haven't fallen for her and I'm not crushing over her. Our parents introduced us and we began to talk from there. But I never had any strong feelings towards her because I could never properly communicate with her as she's too desi. But now I feel that I'm dragging this along. If I agree to the Risha i'd have nothing in common with her. My friends have said to marry her because of my parents. I can't do that, I can't just marry someone for someone else's sake. Doesn't matter if someone looks good or not you have to have some sort of compatibility before getting married. Even our conversations on the phone were couple of minutes long. Texts would just be random stuff nothing too deep or personal. I dont know how to say no to my parents, they'll be extremely disappointed in me.

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i think u live in a cave, and ur parents have been living under a rock....

if you all are educated to some degree, you would all agree, that they should listen to u and ur say in everything that is to do with you...

reading all your post, it seema to me, your not doing much about it but crying...we have all told u what to do, but u keeep on repeating urself...what shall i do? what shall i do?

i think the girl is smart enough and is actively looking for a partner she can click with....

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And I think you're extremely batameez. If you don't have to say anything in a proper manner don't say it at all. Living under a rock? You must be on a mountain like a wandering owl. I'm trying to explain something and you think it's either yes or no. Listen if you're going to continue to reply in an insolent manner then don't reply to my thread please. Thank You.

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ok good luck

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OP, Listen to what honey badger is saying. Just listen to her :cheer:

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Don't judge a person based on his/her WhatsApp status.

How is your relationship with her otherwise?

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I'm confused as to what you expect the people on this forum to say. This girl doesn't seem interested in you. You're not in love with her, you've already suspected her of having a BF, and overall you're not happy with this match. So the logical thing for your own best interest is to NOT marry her. You don't have to a be a genius to figure this out. Yet you, an adult man, apparently don't know how to say "no" to your mommy/daddy.

You can't have it both ways. Either speak to your parents directly, let them know what's going on and the reason behind you wanting to break up this match. OR stop complaining and go through with this marriage. You already know the 2 choices in this situations. Pick one, accept the choice YOU made, and move along.

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How do you expect to marry her? At this point, it doesn't even sound like she'd show up to the wedding.

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He OP, made an account just to reply to this thread -- to be honest, she's just not that into you.

She is obviously finding someone far more interesting to chat with on WhatsApp. Not only is she not into you, but it's sort of disrespectful on her part to not let you know that she's getting her giggles somewhere else.