Larka & larki should not meet after engagement!

[yourfriend]

Re: Larka & larki should not meet after engagement!

@Shikra

There’s nothing wrong about families visiting each other. But like I said before, I guess they are afraid that the more they (families) meet and get informal, more chances that someone will offend someone and one thing can lead to another and it might come a point where they have to break the engagement. Superstitions

your points are True but that is NOT superstitions…don’t tell me u never came across the scenarios where engagements were broken upon these kinda stupidities… it’s damn common in our Desi culture .. larki ki chachii nay larkay kay xyz rishtaydaar ko mazaaq mazaaq main kuch kah diya. loo jee ‘Izzat’ ka masla ho gaye… rishta khatem. Khalaass.

Sadiyah .. as someone had already mentioned, it is extremely hard to recover for some people (specially for girls) if their engagement ends because of some XYZ reasons. thats why parents usually dont like too much meetings after engagements because they fear the ‘emotional attachment’ between the two..

plus, ‘a girl’ is always expected to Look pretty and ‘Act’ somewhat close to Perfect by her potential inlaws and she is always under the observations.. which is not quite possible for her.. .. that’s why less meetings are far Much better as per my opinion..
and last.. but and very solid reason as per my mom ‘larkiyon ki sharam, kasissh aur jhijhak (hesitation) khatem ho jati hai bar bar iss tarhan say milnay say’. …and alot of Modest Parents still like to see Bashfulness among their daughters.