Landing into an arranged marriage would it work?

[Palz]

Re: Landing into an arranged marriage would it work?

@redvelvet

Marriage is a gamble whether it’s an arranged marriage or a love marriage. But when you enter something without getting to know the person…it’s going to be an even bigger risk. At least that much can be said in response to your question…because none of us can really tell you whether or not this marriage will work out. But we can tell you…and you yourself must already know this too…it’s a bigger risk…hence the increased feeling of uneasiness.

Try to interact with him…face to face would be best. Give it some time…first few times might be awkward. And if after some time you feel that you both are not compatible at all…(and it’s only an engagement at this point)…then break it off. Much easier to end an engagement than a marriage. And just beause you’ve known someone all your life (or if they’re from the same khaandan) doesn’t necessarily make them a suitable life partner. Again, get to know him. That’s the only way that you for you to ease your discomfort. Otherwise…asking us about whether or not we think something will work …is just like playing guesswork and won’t really help matters. It would have been better to get to know the guy before letting things progress to this stage…but it’s still not too late.

thankz dear helped alot