Laina Daina or Pehnoani

[StrangeOne]

Re: Laina Daina or Pehnoani

@Deeba1234

We don’t do it much either.. When my brother got married his ex’s family was massively into it.. well receiving anyway lol.. I don’t remember getting anything at all from them but we were supposed to buy things for their entire family.. My parents were a little bit irritated as it seemed there was more emphasis on gifts and the “show” aspect of it than the relationship itself.. There were even a few arguments when their side said they wanted more..

I know of at least 3 engagements that have broken after the cards were sent out because of demands. 2 from the guy’s side and 1 from the bride. Like it’s crazy how in this day and age people still lack the class to ask for more and not even for the bride/groom but themselves. Even if people aren’t greedy they need to show off to their families. Log kya kahein gay is such a life ruiner. Lol!

Relationships are meant to last a lifetime and gift giving can happen throughout the time. It’s not necessary to break the bank as if the wedding is the pinnacle of the relationship and not the rest of the life.