Re: lailatul mairaj...
Our muslim br. for any good acts like reciting quran as ref and ask if it was practice of our holy prophet saw but when some one use abusive language nobody ask ref from the practice of our Holy Prophet (s.a.w). Those who committ sins of abuse can not teach islam and there are hundreds of hadith present like this.
Actually there is an incident when Abu Bakr radiAllahuanhu cursed at someone in front of the Prophet for saying something bad about the Sahaba and the Prophet said nothing. There's also another incident with Abu Dharr al Ghifari, he also cursed at someone. Just so that you know.
and tell me if you all are sure that you will obey if i will provide link from malki books, or shafai books.
one will say i am not maliki, other will say it is shafai practice and some will say this is shia practice. is there any sense in asking ref if you all are not united. wassalam
As long as these references have some sort of daleel that goes back to the Prophet or the Sahaba then I will accept it, otherwise I don't care.