…have you come to the realization that you may not be the first woman your husband has fallen in love with and you may not be his preferred choice in a mate?
Considering the over abudnance of bollywood movies and mating season all year round, it would be highly probable your husband has had a love of his life and you aren’t it? Requires something thought doesn’t it?
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CM are you TRYING to make girls cry 
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Honestly no. That by no means has ever been the intention. However I am trolling yes. And thank you for the chuckle.
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I'm not his first love but I'm his first wife. Enough said.
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Yah. But eventually when you start living together and are happy with each other, im sure all thoughts of not getting yr dream man or women goes out of the window!
we all have 2 be realistic, no matter what we got we often think i cud have done better blah blah...the what ifsssssss!!!
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yes all of us, men and women, were born and we all lived in cages blocked out from the outside world and our only goal in life was to get married to the man or woman that we'll spend the rest of our lives with. We come across no one else in our lives before then.
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Dammit I better be his preferred choice 
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they say never buy item in the first year its manufactured. 
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Isn't it more important to be his last love and the one he ultimately chose to spend his life with?
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Speak for yourself, mard! I was and am my husband’s first and only love. I plan to keep it that way, thank you!
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don't know and don't care. He married me and he loves me for what I am at present. I really don't care to know about his past anymore. And the stuff in his past I really would be concerned about I have figured that out too. So just having feelings for someone or being in love with someone before he married me wouldn't get me in qualms.
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Second Woman?
Boohoo, ohhh the injustice. rolls eyes
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What you don't know can't hurt you. Thus, I don't want to know; unless there's a chance of getting a knock on the door some 15 years later.
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He and I were probably not each other’s first crushes, he wasn’t a crush-type but I always needed to have a crush 
, and he knows that. But we first each other’s first love (we got to know each other when we were 17-18) so that makes me uber-happy.
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I never wanted to be anyones first love. I think its more important to be somone's last love and also his wife but knowing or being told that i wasn't the preffered mate would be hurtful. And knowing that he could fall in love with someone else after me would break my heart.
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^that makes sense but they say first loves are usually the ones you never forget about since it's the one you're most smitten and head-over-heels in love with and once you find that, they become your first and last. Sounds lame but it 'works'.
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Its easy for guys.. as long as she cooks and cleans.. she is good to go..
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I have seen many people fall in and out of love. And you can never forget love whether it was first second third or last. Moving on from it is whats harder but it is in any relationship. So what makes it important is how you were treated in love knowing that your love still persists and the faith that it will never leave you.
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As long as she spends most of her time in the kitchen, I won't be bothered
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Whatever rocks your boat is good for him .
That is the spirit , the moment you find out the truth beat him with that rolling pin and make his bhurta and feed to your ILS.