Re: Ladies
One of my mom’s cousins couldnt have kids… her husband didn’t care and said it was in “allah’s hands”. But his mother was ready for a divorce to go down. To keep his sister’s marriage salamat, her brother and HIS wife gave one of their newborn twin sons to them. It was such a sacrifice from the birth parents end it was biggest and bestest gift that mom’s cousin and her husband ever got. They raised that child as their own and were the happiest and proudest parents ever.
Fast forward 19 years… Their son is in his first year of college… when his “dad” suddenly decides that he actually wants kids of his own. He gets married to another woman… who is almost like 30 yrs younger than him!!! 
You can imagine how my mom’s cousin felt… their adopted son felt… and how her brother and his wife felt… 
The whole thing was so messed up and selfish from her husbands end.
His mother was beyond happy ofcourse. We heard she was so excited that she was going have grandSONS that were of her own blood.
… go figure that the guy has only had 4 daughters as of now…