I agree with D6C. I’m just shocked at how accepting desi women (here) are. But then, I wasn’t completely brought up in the west..perhaps that explains my rigid view. I can’t even fathom it, personally, despite not being all that religious.
The ‘boys will be boys’ reasoning just doesn’t fly with me and never will. That’s one reason why I’m going to look eastward when it’s time to search. Oh…oops.