Yeah, I think most desi men would have this response. Question is, why are we girls so forgiving? Some of the girls here are pretty solid in their response that its not acceptable, but lots of girls in this thread alone are making excuses for the men in their culture…
However, just like you said, a guy would never accept it if they even slept around once (some guys wouldn’t even buy it if you said you repented/regretted what you did and wouldn’t do it again).