Re: Ladies, how many of you changed your name after marriage?
I changed my name..... I didn't care either way, changing my name doesn't mean I'm not my father's daughter anymore.
Plus What's in a name? That which we call a rose by any other name would smell as sweet. :p
Re: Ladies, how many of you changed your name after marriage?
ps: selective reading and quoting from the whole article just because you didn't agree with one sentence.. how smart!!!
do you only read just a sentence and then butcher it?
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assumptions do not make you sound intelligent. I asked what I wanted the clarification of. What is the problem there.
Thing is this that you (and others) are trying to justify personal choices by making them look like something islamic. It creeps me out when people try to make it look like their choices are not their choices but because they are following islam to the core.
Re: Ladies, how many of you changed your name after marriage?
Plus What's in a name? That which we call a rose by any other name would smell as sweet. :p
same for kad'doo karela. You can call them gulab but they are still kad'doo karela ..
what do you say Gulabo?
Re: Ladies, how many of you changed your name after marriage?
aap kuch ziyaada free nahin ho rahay?
Sudhar jayein nahin tau abhi Niksik ko bulaati hoon.
Re: Ladies, how many of you changed your name after marriage?
My last name is my cast, so I didn't see the point of changing that. Whether married or not, my cast would remain the same.
My middle name, however is my dad's name, and I kept that as well.. :D
He never asked me to change, and I never bothered with it either.
Re: Ladies, how many of you changed your name after marriage?
Although its a personal choice, but I believe that’s how it is Islamically too. No, I am not a molvi but just for the sake of sharing knowledge.. “I think” that’s how it is in Islam.
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aray, aap ne hee to apne aap ko bola thaa ..
waisay a sister can be gulabo too .. if you were thinking otherwise
man yahan to har eik kaa mood hee kharab hai aaj 
Re: Ladies, how many of you changed your name after marriage?
Re: Ladies, how many of you changed your name after marriage?
Reha, band karo yeh khilkhilana
Re: Ladies, how many of you changed your name after marriage?
Mein hasoon to mushkil, raoon to mushkil…meri to avaz hi sabko buri lagti haiiiiiiiiii
Re: Ladies, how many of you changed your name after marriage?
assumptions do not make you sound intelligent. I asked what I wanted the clarification of. What is the problem there.
Thing is this that you (and others) are trying to justify personal choices by making them look like something islamic. It creeps me out when people try to make it look like their choices are not their choices but because they are following islam to the core.
if you had read the whole article or my full reply, clarification was right in there!
I am by no means trying to justify my personal choice as the following Islam "to the core" I said what I knew and understood.. if you still have any doubts you should definitely read the FULL article posted by Spiral..TRUE LINEAGE comes from your ftaher not from your husband...thats all I was saying!!!!
Re: Ladies, how many of you changed your name after marriage?
Mera mood already kharab hai :pcg:
And i HATE the word gulabo
Re: Ladies, how many of you changed your name after marriage?
and by the way how come umhat ul momineen are always known by their fathers name (even if they weren't Muslim) and not by Mohammad (saw) last name? If it was allowed, wouldn't they be more honored to have Mohammad (saw) last name than any of us with our husband's last name?
Re: Ladies, how many of you changed your name after marriage?
I didn't change my surname from my father's name to my husband's name coz of religious reasons, it's not allowed in my religion.
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I dont need to read the full article. I know that you are right. True Lineage comes from father, that is true. All I am saying that picking your hubby’s name as your last name is not denying that aspect of Islam (Lineage from father).
Its not a word, its a name …just like chambeli and yasmeen
Re: Ladies, how many of you changed your name after marriage?
aur kya kya allowed nahi hai aap ke religion main.
Re: Ladies, how many of you changed your name after marriage?
I didn't change my surname from my father's name to my husband's name coz of religious reasons, it's not allowed in my religion.
What religion are you hareem?
Re: Ladies, how many of you changed your name after marriage?
Chambeli and Yasmeen are names of flowers, gulabo is NOT. I’ve met women named Chambeli and Yasmeen, never Gulabo.
Aap kissi Gulabo ko jaantay hain kiya?
Aapki suhbat kuch garbar wali lag rahee hai mujhe, first that pic on your blog and now this 
Re: Ladies, how many of you changed your name after marriage?
No actually it’s haram to change your surname. Having said that lots of women in my family have changed their surnames to their husbands’ first name or family name may be they didn’t know that it’s forbidden in Islam, even i didn’t know for a long time but now I know and it makes complete sense to me.
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^:eek: Its forbidden? really?