Re: Ladies and wanting attention
lol, not that a guy will ever agree that hes being resistant. but that is def a good approach. you know i think its that guys act differently through different means of communication. in person my SO is very affectionate and gives tons of attention. but as we are in a LD relationship, it takes a toll bc i know he is not much of a telephonic/skype communicator. and i think THAT is where the problem lies for us specifically. so its kind of difficult to point it out or nail things smoothly when i bring it up. he will ask me what is it that he can do differently, but then again, im not the kind to blatantly demand something only bc i dont want to sound like im nagging. but yes, my feelings do need to be understood, only if i could channel them properly..which i thought i did, but apparently i did not bc i dont feel there is much progress. i kind of want to just stop having to mention it but that feeling for me will not go away. i dont want to sound like im beating a dead horse on the head, which nonetheless is exactly how i feel 