Ladies and guys please read, cheating gf

[Pisiform]

Re: Ladies and guys please read, cheating gf

this thread literally makes me puke because of the crude language ..’used her body’ ‘khusa - whatever the hell that mean’ and on and on. Why is it still alive?

[highly_dreaded]

Re: Ladies and guys please read, cheating gf

@Pisiform

this thread literally makes me puke because of the crude language ..’used her body’ ‘khusa - whatever the hell that mean’ and on and on. Why is it still alive?

You’re right in the case of my post. But honestly that is what the OP seems to be implying he did. However, I don’t know if the two of them sleeping together somehow means that the two should trust each other blindly.

[Midnight_express_91]

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Good god you are something else. You (your type of mentality) is exactly why pakistani women view us pakistani men (for the most part) so horribly…

[Lusi]

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@Pisiform

this thread literally makes me puke because of the crude language ..’used her body’ ‘khusa - whatever the hell that mean’ and on and on. Why is it still alive?

Thank you!

[redvelvet]

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Op, you made an “intimate video” with her that she fears you’d expose to the world? Yikes! What the heck is in that video? She may have a track record for time-pass, but both of you aren’t doodh k dhulay huay. :\

[Iconoclast]

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Well reading it again, even though the girl is not on this forum to defend herself, you still come out as worse arseH of the two.

[madz124]

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@Iconoclast

**Well reading it again, **even though the girl is not on this forum to defend herself, you still come out as worse arseH of the two.

You had the patience to read it again?

[madz124]

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@billucdnboy

Sorry, this is going to be like a long essay but I hope you guys go through it and give me some suggestions on like how to confront this problem.

I think you’re trolling us, billyboy. But just in case you are not, my suggestion would be to not get married to anyone until you work on yourself first. Others have already pointed out which areas you need to focus on to improve yourself. At the moment, you are not ready for a relationship with this girl or anyone else. Take some time to educate yourself on Islam, morality, and humanity. Work on your insecurities and trust issues. Maybe you’ve had a colourful past, and as a result, you have such a tough time trusting others? Regardless, even if you have indeed been lied to, forgiveness is a great quality to have. Spend time on your own character development, and leave behind anything that pulls you into darkness. You’ll find more long lasting peace that way than any temporary solutions.

[SID_NY]

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@Iconoclast

Well reading it again, even though the girl is not on this forum to defend herself, you still come out as worse arseH of the two.

@madz124

You had the patience to read it again?

haha.. I didnt even read it all once, just gave up after that khusra talk.

[Demilitarize]

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That’s like throwing good money after bad.

@billucdnboy

I have already exhausted so much of my energy and emotions on this lady. I think its only fair now I put her through this emotional rollercoaster ride.

[BruceWayne]

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@pinks

You indulged in zina. She indulged in zina. It makes no difference how many men she did it with. You both committed a major sin. I don’t think you realise how grave your sins are. You should be sickened by your own actions.

Instead of focusing so much energy punishing her for wronging you… You ought to spend that time worrying about how your Lord might punish you if you don’t sincerely repent.

Get on with life and better yourself.

Well they may not be Muslims, not every Paki is Muslim ffs and if they were Muslim, they could be from one of the many different sects/school of thoughts, like they could be Shiites and did Nikah Mutah or even wahabi did mayar or whatever they call it…

[Decent_6Chora]

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OP is gone perhaps registering new nick and writing new story ! LOL

[pinks]

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@BruceWayne

Well they may not be Muslims, not every Paki is Muslim ffs and if they were Muslim, they could be from one of the many different sects/school of thoughts, like they could be Shiites and did Nikah Mutah or even wahabi did mayar or whatever they call it…

You’re right, there is the (small) chance that the poster isn’t Muslim.

PS, the OP clearly referred to the woman as his gf.

[Mirch]

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@billucdnboy

her swear on Allah

I have managed to find someone who is going to give me all her and the guys she talks to all their phone details( including complete sms) .
But then I think once a cheater always a cheater.
This will essentially ruin her life because after being divorced twice, nobody sane will marry her again.

I will consider following a more sensible route if you believe in my situation you could truly do the same. Thanks

You should start a sex blog. You are smart enough to trick her to give you access to her mobile records .
You found someone who can give you access to her SMS.
You know her life will be ruined by your actions .
You know her life is ruined already if what you claim to have found about her sex life.
If you are holier than her you tell her you know everything about her but you still love her and you would marry her and you would give her so much love that she would not think of any other man.
You used word Allah and four letter words in same post it is disgusting. If you belive in Allah then you would not go around to find more dirt about her after she swear upon Alllah and would leave yours and her fate to Allah.
You started this thread to fulfill your fantasies and chuskay bazi.
In Pakistan corrouption is rampant in government departments but not in Private sector no amount of money or your connections can get you access to someones SMS or mobil records because all mobil companies are owned by private sector. The only way you can get this access is if you own that mobil company which you never said you do.
Now go and masterbate one more time and go to sleep like a good boy . You are a good boy anyway not a troll.

[billucdnboy]

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Wow, bunch of fools who still believe this girl is innocent or who think I am trolling. I have not run away, I will try to reply posts individually if I can. Thing is I am so emotionally drained right now because now it is starting to feel very real that I am going to lose this girl. Because of my own actions. But I would rather choose this than sharing this girl with somebody else( which she would rather be doing, like time pass). Whoever will be mine its going to have to be exclusively, otherwise I might as well end it for them also. If I was time passing I would not have gone this path, I would have been content with her seeing this guy as long as I get to screw her also. But that’s not what I want. Her family got to know some of the things about other guys, however the ladies in the house have somehow twisted the story and convinced the men of things against me( that Im bugging her, and Im the wrong #!) But I am going to get in touch with her uncle. She has refused to talk to me so that’s license for me to finally end this emotional ride. I have told everything to my dad in case they bring it up with him. He had mentioned years ago this girl is loose character, but at that time I thought I was also only time passing, yet somehow I am now feeling heartache over all this. Her family has started rishta talk, I can still intervene and marry her, but I know I will never be able to keep her from indulging in these things, she is so persistent she will find some way to humiliate me and my family. I would end up being mentioned by people in my city that I have a gashti wife. Other than me, there are two guys shes been involved with, talking for hours with all three how she has managed to drag for this long without anybody doubting only a true gashti like her could do it. Yet I still want to send message through my friend that she talks to me once because for some time it is going to be hard to get over her, But then I think its better her family gets rid of this bhaigharat girl soon because otherwise she will run away with someone very soon. I finally have all the details of these guys, names, cnic#, fathers name and complete addresses. Took me $20 to send 1500 rupees load via online to a guy in Pak who did it for me. And the info is 100% correct. So yeah either we will get in touch somehow or everyone will know. First she will get real beating and then married of with somebody( jera meray tattayaan de barabar vi ni hon lagha, “who will not even compare to my balls”.) Cheers

[Reha]

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You’re so powerful…you have $20 and look at your pohonch…wow.

[Southie]

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Ungli pakadkar pohuncha pakadna

[Rayan]

Re: Ladies and guys please read, cheating gf

Let me try to answer your original question, NO, dont do that, you are not going to gain anything out of this. You will spend time/money/energy for what? revenge? what is that? and for what? what she did to you that you need to take revenge on? As you said, she is a slut, let her be and move on with your life.

This part is about what is wrong with you and your whole story, you can skip as you dont seems to be looking for it.

Do you had a contract with her that prevented her from calling the other guys? In our part we call it Nikah. Now, if it was just the “getting to know each other phase”, you had 3 years, if you cant make up your mind in 3 years then you will never, move on. May be she had multiple “getting to know each other phase” going on.

You want your wife to be virgin but dont have any problem sleeping with your girl friend before nikah, wow, hypocrisy much? As per your logic, the girl who is going to marry you will be marrying a cheater?

Now, who give you the moral/legal rights to look at her call records/sms? its her sh.it, let her handle it.

P.S: as a male and may be around your age (am at my late 20’s) just a bro advice, be a good human, everything else will follow. Find inner happiness, be happy just for yourself, then everything else will feel silly. Leave all these revenge, virginity, obsession, stalking/spying on others, and be a man and live your life.

[Nina85]

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no point in revenge. You are both young and are both guilty. Forgive and forget-move on.

[Nina85]

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@billucdnboy

Wow, bunch of fools who still believe this girl is innocent or who think I am trolling. I have not run away, I will try to reply posts individually if I can. Thing is I am so emotionally drained right now because now it is starting to feel very real that I am going to lose this girl. Because of my own actions. But I would rather choose this than sharing this girl with somebody else( which she would rather be doing, like time pass). Whoever will be mine its going to have to be exclusively, otherwise I might as well end it for them also. If I was time passing I would not have gone this path, I would have been content with her seeing this guy as long as I get to screw her also. But that’s not what I want. Her family got to know some of the things about other guys, however the ladies in the house have somehow twisted the story and convinced the men of things against me( that Im bugging her, and Im the wrong #!) But I am going to get in touch with her uncle. She has refused to talk to me so that’s license for me to finally end this emotional ride. I have told everything to my dad in case they bring it up with him. He had mentioned years ago this girl is loose character, but at that time I thought I was also only time passing, yet somehow I am now feeling heartache over all this. Her family has started rishta talk, I can still intervene and marry her, but I know I will never be able to keep her from indulging in these things, she is so persistent she will find some way to humiliate me and my family. I would end up being mentioned by people in my city that I have a gashti wife. Other than me, there are two guys shes been involved with, talking for hours with all three how she has managed to drag for this long without anybody doubting only a true gashti like her could do it. Yet I still want to send message through my friend that she talks to me once because for some time it is going to be hard to get over her, But then I think its better her family gets rid of this bhaigharat girl soon because otherwise she will run away with someone very soon. I finally have all the details of these guys, names, cnic#, fathers name and complete addresses. Took me $20 to send 1500 rupees load via online to a guy in Pak who did it for me. And the info is 100% correct. So yeah either we will get in touch somehow or everyone will know. First she will get real beating and then married of with somebody( jera meray tattayaan de barabar vi ni hon lagha, “who will not even compare to my balls”.) Cheers

And…this is psycho behavior- you just had your ego bruised and can’t deal with that- grow up a be a real man. Only then will you meet a real woman btw. You wrote “she refuses to talk to me”. THEN LEAVE HER ALONE.