Ladies and guys please read, cheating gf

[billucdnboy]

Re: Ladies and guys please read, cheating gf

@amber19

This whole situation is ridiculous.
If you already know she’s cheating on you - why waste your time and energy on her? You already have zero trust in this relationship and marriage is no joke. Even if you married her “out of revenge” and divorced her later, why ruin your own life? Divorces and marriages don’t come cheap you know, not to mention involving two unsuspecting families into the mix. It’s just stupidity. The best revenge is just to forget it and move on. Don’t stoop to someone else’s level.

Also, if you are going to continue to use her as a “sex buddy” then be prepared to share with all the other guys she might have been with. This is completely unhealthy and also dangerious for you to even consider. Why take the risk with so many STD’s out there? You don’t know enough about this girl apparently and you don’t trust her. Your just angry you got played but by sticking around you’re just wasting time.

Another thing - virgin women don’t all bleed. I don’t understand how this myth even got started. The actual stats on this are less than 50% of girls actually do. So that’s not even a way to contemplate on a girl’s virginity. If you can’t take her word for it and believe it, then move on. This relationship is dead.

Honestly, I have so many of her secrets now that I don’t need to marry her for revenge, so yes marriage is out of question now. As for sex buddy, yes I felt that way at times yet at times I did indeed think marriage a possibility. I was not worried about STDs because at the time I had no doubts, plus while I do now believe she has slept around, I think it’s only with maybe couple of other guys once or twice each at most. I have reasons to believe that because while she s around on the phone a lot, it is not easy for her to physicially leave the house unless with somebody, so I know it’s not at all like she slept with bunch of people gazallinion times, but more like couple of other people for sure once or twice. With me it was different because I went her house everyday( we are almost relatives). One guy I confronted today( long story will mention in latter posts) told me he met her once and wanted me to get out of their way. His story seemed pretty legitimate. But still my point stands even if she had sex once ( or even if they didn’t and only kissed etc), she still cheated.
Also regarding virgin women bleeding etc, I don’t mean to say you are lying etc, but I doubt theres any certainty in that 50% stats. It’s only from some bull surveys to which bunch of slutty participants would’ve lied. I still believe the typical mindset if woman doesn’t bleed, she wasn’t virgin to begin with, unless she has had physically active lifestyle, sports, cycling etc, which this girl I have been talking about did not. Add to this all her history of blatant lies and cheating, highly likely she had slept around before meeting me.