Ladies and guys please read, cheating gf

[Paheli00]

Re: Ladies and guys please read, cheating gf

@parisbynight

**OP is extremely wrong in contempling revenge and doing that would make him as bad as the girl, **but can we blame him to be angry and call her names for cheating on him?

Exactly what did he write on his post that makes it crystal-clear that the girl is cheating on him? In fact, he wrote that she has told him to move on with marriage b/c she/her parents have held off other rishtas b/c of him!

Read the gems from his below:

@billucdnboy

I think she got too close because I’m from abroad, family fairly well off, and she wanted like marriage with me etc.

Before all this she had told me the khusra guy who married her, never touched her in any of her private parts, I made her swear on different people, things and she did. I hesitantly believed her back then but heck even if he was Khusra, he would’ve played with her now that I think about it. She has told me she never had sex with anyone else, after all her lies I am 99.99% certain she has ****ed other guys.

1. He went to Pakistan, and started a physical relationship with a girl and obviously led her to believe that he had feelings for her if she’s asking for marriage. Yet he’s accusing her of being a passport chaser/gold-digger b/c he’s from the US and his family is well-off. Any logical reasons given for these conclusions? Nope.

2. What type of man asks a divorced woman DETAILS of her sexual activities with her ex-husband?! How sick/disgusting is that?! She said her first marriage ended b/c the guy could not consummate the marriage…and that should have been it. Yet this guy went on to ask details on whether or not her HUSBAND as that time touched her in her private parts and made her swear her answers?! Just think about that. Even IF she lied about that…so what?! What right does ANYONE have to expect this girl to share such intimate details from her 1st marriage? If the idea that she was touched/played with/has $ex with her 1st husband bothers OP this much….then he should’ve stayed away from her from day 1 b/c he knew she was a divorcee.

3. OP thinks that she is talking on the phone with other guys. His belief is based on the fact that her phone line is busy when another guy’s phone line is busy. Again, sit and think about that logic. And based on this, he has moved on to labeling her as a liar, cheater, and a sl*t.

4. The fact that OP even considered marrying her to teach her a lesson shows how selfish and narcissistic he is. For him to not consider how her family and even his own family would feel about this “idea” speaks volumes about is ability to put himself in other peoples shoes.

Frankly we can’t blame OP for any of this b/c he seems to have serious psychological issues including, but not limited to, paranoia and OCD.