Ladies and gentlemen,

[Niksik]

Re: Ladies and gentlemen,

@Sehrysh

Let’s flip this thread on its head. So, if a man’s parents ask him to leave his wife and he does, what do you think of such parents and what do you think of such a man?

and I actually know of parents who have said this to their sons

I think in both cases the bechara mard is the one who must make the right decision. If he chooses to leave his parents to please his wife, he needs some chittars, and if he chooses to leave his wife because the parents said so, then again he needs some chittars.

What he should do, is sit with both parties separately and become a man.