So therefore, it is not hard to imagine why us girls find it annoying that you are the type of guy that would not even try to convince his wife otherwise. And no - you truly would not try to convince her because you don't find it "appealing".
Like I said above, I was not present for MY childs birth - not yours, so i dont see why my excercising MY right not to be present is upsetting you or others.
I havent said that NO husbands should be present at their wifes bedside - its their choice!! So why is my not being their afffecting any of you? We've had 2 children - so my wife has been through tghe experience twice.
If we were to have another - she would not want me present.