waisay if u think abt it.......its unnatural to like one guy forever too.....just one guy cant be all u want......the sissies make good hip romantics.....see there is always a trade-off somewhere.....:(
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Kya Shaadi K Baad Larkay Sudhar Jatay Haen?
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Larkey to Jahaaaz (plane) hotey hian, bas larki ko acha pilot hona chaheye.
Ye pilot ka kamal hai ke aeroplane kaisay urta hai ;)
Ya phir kahaan land karta hai :p
and to add........machos give us battered wives.......it wud have been so easy, if only i didnt hate the word 'balanced individual'.....karoon toa kiya karoon?
I think in most cases, a married person will lust after someone beyond their spouse at least once. At least once.
And that honestly goes for both men and women. Its just that if women commit infedelity, they have more to lose, especially in our culture. I think that's why it seems like men are more prone to continue being pigs after marriage. Women would like to be pigs as well, but, we have this one difference that holds us back. It costs us 9 months of pregnancy and years of child-rearing and that too with minimal financial support if we engage in hanky panky. Meanwhile, what do men really have to lose?
chal bai…jahaz ka bacha…pakistan mai railgari hoti hai…patri sai utartai hi faut ho jaati hai…
Re: Kya Shaadi K Baad Larkay Sudhar Jatay Haen?
must be something limited to your family and social circle. real world is not like it.
Tumhain railgari ka kis ne bataya ???
Larkeyaan aisi batain nahi kartien :nono: Paap lagta hai
^ right!..paap lagta hai!..abhi kuch dair pehlay jahaz joa urh raha tha, woh paap nahin lagta…
and as for real world…of course it doesnt have only verizon’s statistics to it, right…it also has so-called fraudias who dont use their real names…act all…khair janain dain…laikin phir bhi aisi sharafat hai kai peecha nahin chorti…(i feel so good…kitnai dinoan sai dil chah raha tha kuch aisa kehnay ka )
^^ OK and Ghulail must be your first name. What your parents didn't like you or something. Talk about pot calling the kettle black (referring to your comments about real names).
Sex is a biological need. Thats about all there is to it, it is wierd that laws have been established circling sex and religions talk about it in details, sex education alone will suffice.
About two or three year ago in Nature magazine there was an article on infidelity in animal kingdom. All animals ( and I equate humans as animals nothing more) cheat with the exception of this one species of bird. Event that was negated cause the male bird was caught humping another female. It was good to read that the bird was not McGreevey from NJ, but just wanted to blast his load off.
It's silly to indict men and male infidelity only. It takes all sorts of men and women to make the world go.
I know this Pakistani muslim woman, a friend, pretty girl, married -- no kids, and in her early twenties. Her hubby has a great job and travels a lot. Well, the wifey goes out of control once hubby is out of town! She has been with over 40 men in a span of 5 months!!!
It's easy and comfortable to open a thread about male infidelity, point fingers, have a few cheap giggles. It's not easy to accept that oh-so-pious desi women cheat too.
Just like men, women (desi, Pakistani and muslim) have affairs too. There are many men who do not have affairs and are faithful to their spouses. Likewises, there are many women who are faithful to thier spouses too.
What an idiotic generalization. 
Both sexes are eually as *******ous.
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She has been with over 40 men in a span of 5 months!!!
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40 men in 5 months?? and the husband hasn't found out yet?. At least you have.
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It's silly to indict men and male infidelity only. It takes all sorts of men and women to make the world go.
I know this Pakistani muslim woman, a friend, pretty girl, married -- no kids, and in her early twenties. Her hubby has a great job and travels a lot. Well, the wifey goes out of control once hubby is out of town! She has been with over 40 men in a span of 5 months!!!
It's easy and comfortable to open a thread about male infidelity, point fingers, have a few cheap giggles. It's not easy to accept that oh-so-pious desi women cheat too.
Just like men, women (desi, Pakistani and muslim) have affairs too. There are many men who do not have affairs and are faithful to their spouses. Likewises, there are many women who are faithful to thier spouses too.
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Hey PM me her phone number, she won't be disappointed I promise.
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Both sexes are eually as ******ous.
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true, iv heard of more women cheaters than i have men.
Re: Kya Shaadi K Baad Larkay Sudhar Jatay Haen?
What a way to insult. You need standing applause, even though I belong to the humiliated camp, but what a way to do it. Are you really interested in the answer of your question, or its just the way to “take it out”? i.e. dil kee bharaas nikalni thhee aur ek question end mein add ker diya takey thread ban jayay.
LOVELY 
Great piece of work. I am going to read it again.
When I was into the club scene of Chicago, more married women hit on me than single. So to say that married women are better than married men is not very accurate.
Irem your way of writing is very strange....but im gonna throw my 2 cents in... Cheating is wrong doesnt matter which set of genitals you have. I'd like to say that the guy I'll eventually settle down with will be so happy with me and love me (and he damn well better) that he won't want to look at someone else but I know that's just not realistic. Of course I expect him to keep his thing in his pants and not lust after every dumb slut but I can't hold it against him if he thinks or finds someone else attractive. Everyone looks and everyone has thoughts and urges--no religion or culture can prevent that. It's just a matter of how well you control those urges. In my opinion looking at someone or thinking about them won't break the marriage, but it would be mighty disrespectful to check out or flirt with another girl when the wife is RIGHT THERE.
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Irem your way of writing is very strange....but im gonna throw my 2 cents in... Cheating is wrong doesnt matter which set of genitals you have. I'd like to say that the guy I'll eventually settle down with will be so happy with me and love me (and he damn well better) that he won't want to look at someone else but I know that's just not realistic. Of course I expect him to keep his thing in his pants and not lust after every dumb slut but I can't hold it against him if he thinks or finds someone else attractive. Everyone looks and everyone has thoughts and urges--no religion or culture can prevent that. It's just a matter of how well **you control them*. In my opinion looking at someone or thinking about them won't break the marriage, but it would be mighty disrespectful to check out or flirt with another girl when the wife is RIGHT THERE.
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Control them. Men are not an appliance that can be controlled (remote control). We are animals we need to be domesticated.
funguy: that could be because you're a budha.