kissing on the cheek?

does that nulify/break ur rooza; if u kiss on someone’s cheek or get kissed on the cheek by a female friend of yours?

please dont declare me kaafir just for asking that. thank you!

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did u let her do it, or were u not expecting it?

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honestly! i let her do it.

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its haraam, whether in ramadhan or not in ramadhan....

ppl seriously ask if they r allowed to kiss their spouse while fasting, and here u bring in the question of a female friend kissing!!!!

i thought fasting was to show how a muslim can leave even the halaal things for the love of Allah....
how committing haraam can be accomodated in a fast is simply beyond me....

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^ There's nothing wrong in kissing/hugging your spouse hello or goodbye (if that's what they normally do as a greeting for one another).

Only way kissing wouldnt be allowed while fasting is if it was , ummmm leading to other stuff and that's because obviously sex isnt allowed while ur fasting.. simple naaaaa :p

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You shouldn’t even be kissing/be kissed by any non-mahram female, let alone during fasting :smack:

I can’t remember the exact saying but heres a hadith that mentions touching a non-mahram is equivalent of piercing your eye with an iron rod. So doing this whilst in a state of fasting shows blatent disobedience to Allah.

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i dnt think theres anything wrong wid kissing ur spouse buttttt there is if its ur gf/bf.....which ur not supoe to hav in the first place:)

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daaaaaaarn ... piercing ur eye with iron rod :O .. man thats insane.

ok i know kissing a non mehram is haram but does it nulify roza too even if i go astagfar for it?

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Sheeday Baadsha! Yaar Ramzan mein in saheeliaoon ko dour rakhaa karo. An innocent nonsexual type kiss on the cheek should be o.k. I guess, But I have no religious basis or background for this comment.

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If you don't do it on purpose than it doesn't nullify the roza, if you do it on purpose, it does, but you can just ask for forgiveness and make it up afterwards. You shouldn't be doing it in the first place!

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yeah pretty basic stuff.. ok to touch and kiss wife as long as their is no lust involved on eithr side…
However,
If you are committing the haram of having a non-mahram touch or kiss you , that is a problem in the first place. Now near most schools of fiqh and scholars this is an act of lower degree ZINA. Not the actual zina but like zina.
Specially since you say you did it voluntarily. or let her do it.
Then it is during your obligatory fasting, so you have committed an major sin during fasting. Making tauba is the only way out and tauba means the intention to never do it it again. However, your fast should not be “BROKEN or invalidated” so long as you don’t fall under this category…
“…Stimulating oneself, without copulation, to the point of ejaculation. …”

WAllahu Alam.

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Saara has answered yr Question?????????????

Sheeday tu Sheeda hee rahiaNga

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Is it okay to keep earning interest during Ramadan? What a muslim who is earning it should do during Ramadan? is there any way out of this sin during fasting of Ramadan for a holy muslim?

Thanks in advance for answering.

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Interest itself is haram, here I am quoting from the Quran let it be during the Ramadan or anyother month of the year.

Interest is a Khabair Sin.

I hope this answers your question.

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Lahouwallah.. U guys can’t control urself for atleast a month.. :smack:

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Apart of being answered, my question has extended a bit.

Will the fast of those, who are consuming haram during their fasting, during sahri and Ifatr, accepted? Do we have some source which answers this question?

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Sister Princess, i m trying my best to control myself for this holy month, and trying my best not to hurt anyone’s religious sentiments. Do u doubt? Dont U feel that such questions from kuffar can be eye opener for believers?

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Br. Yo_wasim means it is a major sin to deal in interest.

If you have realized this in Ramadhan , then make TAWBAH and ask Allah SWT for forgiveness, as he is oft forgiving...
also, I would advise to ask the bank for a statement so that you know how much interest has been accrued and credited to your account.
Then
just take that money from your accounts and just give that money in some expendititure other than your own and DONT GIVE IT TO A MUSLIM OR ISLAMIC CHARITY.
PLUS YOU CAN GIVE TO A NON-MUSLIM CHARITY BUT YOU CANNOT MAKE THE NIYAAH OF SADAQAH. It is jsut to get rid of the money. Becuase it is considered impure.

WAllahuAlam

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:omg:

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In the Shaafi school being touched by a member of the OS, whether mahrem or not breaks your wudu. Husband and wife can touch each other or kiss each other (in a non-arousing way) in the Hanafi school and still maintain wudu. I am not sure about the other schools.

I would rather not comment on your specific situation, because I think you already know what you need to do (or stop doing).